Join Lavender Pact
Create a profile built for honest pact planning.
Secure your account, set your boundaries, and answer the prompts people need before a values chat starts.
Planning lockedSign in first so your profile, interests, and conversations stay attached to you.
Private pact sharing unlocks only after the saved profile has basics, 3 photos, About Me, and consent.
NeededAccountSign in with your email.
NeededBasicsAdd name, age, pronouns, city/state, and pact preferences.
NeededPhotos0 of 3 required photos added.
NeededAboutWrite a short About Me so introductions understand your intent.
NeededConsentConfirm 18+ and the transparency pledge.
Step 1
Secure your account
Use an email code so your profile, interests, and conversations stay attached to you.
Step 2
Profile basics
These fields power compatibility signals and help people understand your context quickly.
LocationAdd your city and stateOptional. Uses approximate GPS once to fill city and state only.Place names by OpenStreetMap.
PreferencesSet the pact filters people need to understand you.
Step 3
Add profile photos
Upload at least 3 photos from your library before private pact sharing is available.
Photos0 of 6 added
Sign in to unlock photo uploads.1
Primary
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Lifestyle
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Home
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Community
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Detail
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Extra
Step 4
Profile prompts
These answers become the first real planning signals.
Step 5
Safety commitments
Lavender Pact is for adult, transparent, consent-first partnerships only.
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